Human culture is rich. Vast.
There are an overwhelming amount of different ways to cook, express, judge, be. There are many, many differences between humans of all cultures, in layers of morality, rituals, values.
I am interested in the differences; frankly, you cannot be an astronaut without first knowing that space exists. There are ideas, ways of being, that others know to which I have never been exposed. The differences inevitably bear personal growth. But—and this is the part that jazzes me beyond belief—not only are we different, we’re dazzlingly similar.
I am fascinated by that.
That level of connection, that supersedes “all the differences”, goes beyond misunderstanding and labeling of the Other. Authentic, human connection—you bring you, completely and fully, with your deep-rooted goals and needs and desires, and I will bring me, raw and open, all that I struggle with and yearn for and am overwhelmed by.
Then let’s see how different we actually are.
A Kazakh nomadic woman and I share humanity; we spend our days tonguing different languages, engaging with the land differently, fiddling with different technology and different family and different community. But we both have a desire for connection. A need to belong. To have purpose. To contribute. We both have imagination and a disposition for play. Perhaps both of us connect to that subconscious river of music, poetry, art, nature. The difference is in the expression, and I am fascinated by the undercurrent.
I’ve never played the mandolin, but I will use it (and learn it) as a tool for connecting to that very undercurrent of humanity. I will use it to stand in a marketplace corner and give something of my humanity to a place I’ve never seen before. To get to be there, strumming along, observing those who call the place home.
How do they move? With grace, fear, pride, self-connection? How do they speak with each other? Harshly, with physical touch, with facial expressions? How do they see me? With what eyes do they look upon me, plucking away badly on this mandolin?
Cycling is already a form of slow travel; to couple it with spending whole afternoons, days in a town, means that the trip from Scotland to Singapore will be even slower. As long as this doesn’t mean over-extending a visa, that’s perfect for me. I’ve got nowhere to be. I’m here for the long haul.